Be Driven As Fuck Grown-ass Human Being

What you actually see with what I am now is how I became outside the terrifying traumas once I had gone through.

All of us have traumatic experiences but not all are willing to heal because they allow their selves to remain the identity which is centered around the trauma they once experienced.

I never say you should have cancer first to be a driven person but in every walks we travel in our life, we all come from a mountain of pain that we sometimes wish we could keep it hidden from other people.

Another thing that cancer has taught us is to be driven as fuck grown-ass human being. Seeing those fearless cancer survivors who faced cancer with courage and dignity that could actually teach you very important lessons in life where some of you forget until everything is too late.

Think of a friend or loved one that faces those three-letter words encounter, “You have cancer.” They had shown an exceptional strength of character and done things they never thought they could. They all faced this greatest battle in life with boldness, find a new purpose in life, and appreciate the power of now.

Driven as fuck grown-ass human being does these:

• They stop dreaming of possibilities.
• They start making the chances come true.
• They take risks.
• They enjoy new adventures.
• They set vital goals that are unbelievable.
• They inspire others.

I remember myself 4 years ago a woman with a very low self-esteem. A woman who just keep dreaming of possibilities and never start making the possibilities to come true. A woman who is afraid to take risks. A woman who fears new and extreme adventures. A woman who could not even set a simple goal. A woman who waits for people to inspire her instead of her, inspire others.

And also, 2 years ago, after I thought I completely win the battle against cancer, again, I lost my self-esteem and suffer from post-traumatic stress/anxiety which led some people away that used to be close to me.

And not only that, also years ago before I live in Vietnam and being diagnosed with cancer, I was once a mother that lost the custody of my kids and the rest is the history.

It is never too late to go after your goals and to be a driven as fuck grown-ass human being. Wherever mountain of pain you come from, at the peak of it, you’ll be able to reach the stars and the moon you’re always aiming and at the foot of it, you’ll never realize anymore how strong person you are than you were.

We are all like a gold set on fire in order to be refined and ravishing. The fire itself, that tests us and makes each one of us much stronger than ever.

Do you have what it take to be a driven as fuck grown-ass human being?

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Cielo

My name is Cielo, the author of “The Cancer Voice Asia”, a blog that aims to support and inspire anyone who is facing cancer. I know how it feels to be diagnosed with a rare and aggressive type of cancer, Leiomyosarcoma, at the age of 29. I know the challenges, the fears, the hopes, and the joys of living with cancer. I want to share my story with you and connect you with others who understand what you are going through. Together, we can empower ourselves and fight against the disease. Join me on this platform and let’s make our healing journey a meaningful one.