What you actually see with what I am now is how I became outside the terrifying traumas once I had gone through. All of us have traumatic experiences but not all are willing to heal because they allow their selves to remain the identity which is centered around the trauma Continue Reading
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Dying From Cancer Means Winning From The Greatest Battle
While some people are scared to death of dying, most cancer patients are not. Let’s not forget the loved ones and friends once fought the greatest battle in order to continue living and left us a legacy filled with hope and love that lasts in every hearts left in this Continue Reading
Were You One Of A Stubborn Cancer Patients?
Cancer patients need someone to support and encourage them not someone to argue with no matter how stubborn they are. Before you will give up taking care of your loved one or continue connecting with your friend that has cancer. Think about this first. And I will try to make Continue Reading
To My Dear Friend, Your Hug Means A Lot
To continue the letter series for a friend, To My Dear Friend, let’s now talk about the feelings, mood changes and personality changes of a cancer patient or survivor. You are maybe caring a loved one who has cancer and you might observe his/her personality changes also you are unable Continue Reading
Hashtag #RealTalk: A Letter To My Stoma
I was deeply moved by the letter written by “Haparae” to her Stoma. Here’s for another unstoppable fighter that opens up about her illness and how she deals with love, life, and body confidence. A Letter to My Stoma I was so sick and tired of you ruining my Continue Reading
A Smile Costs Nothing But Gives Much
Smiling wooden figure. Photo by Mathew Schwartz on Unsplash You’ve got cancer! Smile! Are you kidding me? Smile? When my doctor told me I had cancer, nothing was the same anymore. Having cancer was like a point of no return. No trace of a smile was found on my face. Continue Reading
We Never Truly Know Another’s Pain They Carry
A man shouting for freedom from pain. Photo courtesy by Tony Rojas on Unsplash We all fall down. Whether we are healthy or not, rich or poor, young or old. There are times that we have to fall lower than we have ever been, to stand up taller than we ever Continue Reading
Human Contact Cannot Be Overestimated!
Human contact cannot be overestimated! This was the exact sentence from another cancer survivor to me in one of the fora in the social media where we share experiences and victories. I shared my latest blog, a letter to my friend whose cancer is back right after her second surgery Continue Reading
To My Dear Friend, Let’s Crush Cancer Together
Recently, you had brought us another terrible news that makes us unbearably sad. “You have cancer, again.” This news had shocked us and left us completely speechless. I sent you a message right after I heard that news from our other friend. Then, you replied back, “We have still hope!” Continue Reading
She Sparkles And Shines On, Meet Karla Kay
Let me just tell those “SHOULD”ers they need to STOP!! Until you hear those 3 words you have no idea how you would handle anything! The Diagnosis On 28th October 2015, I received the phone call at 5 p.m. while standing in the kitchen from my gynecologist doctor. His words Continue Reading